Hopefully, I didn't lose any male readers right there because I would actually love to get all kinds of perspectives on this- males and females, with/ without kids.
The other day, a male friend and I were talking about babies.
He mentioned something about how getting pregnant just messes up the girl's body and basically ruins the guy's life.
This statement really made an impression on me because I guess I just never thought of it as such a DIRE situation.
Am I disillusioned because I'm at a point in my life where every fucking person I know is getting pregnant/ having kids (and posting their every fucking move on Facebook) (ignore my passive-aggressiveness- I'd probably be doing the same thing) and I'm not in the same babyboat because my stupid insides have taken a long walk off a short pier? Pretty much everything baby-related looks like roses from where I stand.
I mean, I'm not dumb. I know it's not always like this:
In fact, it's usually a lot more like this:
But there has to be a fair amount of Kodak moments... And they eventually grow out of the goofy alien stage and turn into a cool kid (depending on the parents, I guess). That probably has some fun stuff involved, right??
What do you guys think? I'd like to hear every and all sides of the topic.